Saturday, October 13, 2007

Friendship in marriage

HMMM what is a great husband? One who provides financially? One who helps with the kids? One who is loving? or all of the above. Do we have these standards for greatness that we don't live up to for ourselves? I wonder all the time... do I anticipate more from him than he anticipates from me?

I guess it would be easier if there was a book of who does what ..but knowing 2007 women we would rebel that book as sexist and old timey. LOL

I think there has to be a balance of friendship between a husband and wife and then the everyday responsibilities of hubands and wives. Remember when you first were dating and it was all good because you were friends. You had no children no bills you just lived and enjoyed each other. If something came up that made you angry you went separate ways until one of you cooled off.

Do we loose friendship when we say I DO?

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